Live in peacešŸ€ not in peices šŸŖ…

JankiShree
3 min readSep 19, 2024

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Living in peace is something we all crave, especially in a world that often feels chaotic. Life can be a whirlwind of responsibilities, deadlines, and endless notifications. Sometimes, it seems like weā€™re just trying to hold ourselves together. But what if thereā€™s a way to find that sweet spot of serenity amidst the chaos?

First things first, letā€™s get real: life is messy. Weā€™ve all had those days when everything feels like itā€™s falling apartā€Šā€”ā€Šwork stress, relationship drama, or even just the dread of laundry piling up. Instead of striving for an impossible perfection, try embracing the chaos. Accepting that life is imperfect can actually free you from the pressure of trying to control everything. Laughing at the little things, like spilling coffee on your shirt, can help you maintain a light-hearted perspective. I really know itā€™s super tough especially for people like me who are partially enveloped with OCD. Remember, nobody has it all figured out; weā€™re all just figuring it out as we go.

If you havenā€™t heard of mindfulness yet, where have you been? Itā€™s like having a chill buddy who reminds you to breathe and take things one step at a time. And we all need this cool buddy always by our side. Mindfulness helps you stay present so you can enjoy life instead of stressing about whatā€™s next. Please give it a go. Try taking a few deep breaths whenever you feel overwhelmed; inhale, hold, exhale, and repeat for instant calm. Or step outside and soak in the sights, sounds, and smells of nature. A five-minute walk can do wonders for your mind.sounds refreshingā€¦ right !

You know that saying, ā€œa cluttered space is a cluttered mindā€? Well, itā€™s true! When your physical space is a mess, it can contribute to your mental chaos. Taking some time to tidy up your surroundings is therapeutic. Focus on one area at a timeā€Šā€”ā€Šlike your desk or bedroomā€Šā€”ā€Šrather than trying to tackle the whole house in one go. Channel your inner Marie Kondo and keep only what sparks joy.

Letā€™s face it: we often stretch ourselves too thin trying to please everyone. Learning to say no is key to protecting your peace. Setting boundaries isnā€™t selfish; itā€™s essential for your well-being. When you donā€™t have the bandwidth, say so! A simple ā€œI canā€™t right nowā€ goes a long way. Focus on what truly matters to you; itā€™s okay to put yourself first sometimes. Indeed.

Practicing gratitude can shift your perspective from whatā€™s lacking to whatā€™s abundant in your life. Even on the toughest days, thereā€™s always something to be grateful forā€Šā€”ā€Šno matter how small. You might try writing down three things youā€™re thankful for every day, whether itā€™s a warm cup of coffee or a good song. Sharing your appreciation with someone can lift both your spirits. Thank you dear Universeā€¦ā€¦.ā˜€ļø

Surrounding yourself with positive, like-minded people who uplift and inspire you is crucial. Your vibe attracts your tribe, and having a supportive circle can make all the difference in finding peace. Look for community events, clubs, or online forums related to your interests. Investing time in friendships that bring you joy can strengthen those bonds. Am sure you are ready to paint the canvas your life with the rainbow colours šŸŒˆ

Lastly, be kind to yourself. Weā€™re often our harshest critics, and treating ourselves with the same compassion weā€™d offer a friend is essential. Challenge negative thoughts; replace ā€œI messed upā€ with ā€œIā€™m learning and growing.ā€ Make time for self-care, whether itā€™s a cozy night in with your favorite movie or a relaxing bubble bath. The challenge is not to be perfect- it is to be whole. An empty lantern provides no light. Self-care is the fuel that allows your light to shine brightly.

Living in peace isnā€™t about achieving some perfect state of bliss; itā€™s about finding balance amidst the chaos. By embracing the messiness of life, practicing mindfulness, setting boundaries, and nurturing gratitude, you can create a peaceful existence, piece by piece. Itā€™s not selfish to love yourself, take care of yourself, and to make your happiness a priority. Itā€™s necessary.Remember, peace is a journey, not a destination. Embrace the ride, and letā€™s live in peace, not in pieces!

Peacefully yourā€™s

Jimmy.

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JankiShree
JankiShree

Written by JankiShree

A writer, a poet, a translator/interpreter , a maverick, sharing my heart out , my expression in words.

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